My Space. My Life

When I was moved to a different site, I got depressed. I missed my comfort zone at the old site I came from. I missed my colleagues. It was a huge adjustment, different account, new set of people to adjust to, new environment, new everything. I went through a really tough time but the thing that got me through was the husband. His strength, his love and his support. He was there listening to me whine and constantly assuring me that I can do this.

He is going to the same thing right now. Being new in his job, he also misses his old friends, his old work schedule - basically his comfort zone. He called me the other day, out of the blue, just to talk because he was feeling so down. I felt for him. I knew what he was going through and I also knew that being there for him is the only way to get him through.

I guess, just as he is my anchor, I am his. Whenever I am lost, I look to him for strength and he does the same with me. This is one of the best things of our marriage, we are each other’s anchor.