The one thing I hate about Christmas

December 25, 2006

Christmas, families gathering, food all around, people giving and receiving gitfs… It’s the most wonderful time of the year. For the most part I agree. But there is this one thing I hate about Christmas…

Insensitive people asking why i don’t have a baby yet.

I know some people mean well but somehow, it offends me. It’s as if we chose not to have one. God knows how much I want to have a baby; I want it - we want our little angel more than you will ever know.

To you who often ask me why we do not have a baby yet, the answer is I DO NOT KNOW! Please, the conflicting emotions are hard enough, do not make me answer that very awkward question anymore as it hurts me more than you know. It brings a lot of very very conflicting emotions.

God can only answer that question and maybe you should try asking Him. It’s only when He says it’s time.

Sorry for being blunt. I guess I just got so frustrated with people always asking. I guess most of you wouldn’t know my frustration of not getting pregnant, but at least now you know how I feel about it and maybe the questions would stop. =,(

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  1. kaya nga i don’t ask couples i know why they don’t have a child yet or when are they planning to have one unless they initiated the topic ;)

    anyways, happy holidays! don’t let the insensitive ones ruin yours ;)

    Comment by kitts — December 27, 2006 @ 12:30 am

  2. MALIGAYANG PASKO AT MANIGONG BAGONG TAON!!! Nawa’y matamo natin ang kapayapaan at kasaganahan sa ating pamilya. Nawa’y lalong tumibay ang ating pananampalataya at laging mapuspos tayo ng kaligayahan

    Comment by leira — December 27, 2006 @ 7:41 am

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